27 Replies to “Defending My Runner Status: Marathoners, milers, 5k’ers, ultra’ers and all those between, are we not all still runners?”
Ha Ha Ha. Seriously I have runner friends who do not do races AT ALL and have zero desire to do so. They are still runners! I do see how you can get annoyed. People do just assume all runners are marathoners.
this is how you answer future questions like that:
“no, I haven’t run a marathon yet….I was too busy setting some national records, bitch!” 😛
haha but seriously, I hate it when people think the marathon is the be-all-end-all of running. I don’t want to hate on anyone, but isn’t a sub-15 5k just as baller as qualifying for Boston? more so, I think. And if you think logically about it, you have to be a runner BEFORE you complete a marathon, cuz like…you have to, you know, train for it. :-P. I’ve never done the full 26.2 and even if my running issues are fixed tomorrow, I still won’t be running – excuse me, I mean RACING – one for a few years yet. cuz I don’t want to RUN a marathon, i wanna RACE one, but i wanna RACE all the shorter distances first!
hahaha…u crack me up and i kno u would totally understand. it’s like, “hmmm excuse me but i’m pretty sure going balls to the wall fast hurts, just in a different way, than ur marathon…mmmk!” 😉 now going all out fast AND for the marathon *ahem* kara style THAT ballin’
Sounds like that guy was just trying to brag. That’s all I would have taken it as. I “run” 12 minute miles. I am as fast as some people walking, but I call myself a runner. I think no matter the speed or accomplishments, you are still a runner. And I love the soul/sole pics above too.
I have run some marathons (the last a decade ago). In some ways running one was a natural progression for me as I explored longer races, but in other ways there was external pressure. A non-running coworker did one. Oprah had done one! And my coworkers could care less about a 10K or 10 mile PR, but they were very interested when I was doing a marathon.
I probably like 15K to half marathon races the best these days. Allows time to settle into pace without going all out from the gun. Think I’m way too fragile these days to train for a marathon!
oh, i do blame oprah in part to setting off the whole ‘i’m gonna do a marathon craze’….hehe. i agree tho about the natural progression point u have, i think sometimes people jump to the marathon first and skip out on the fun and fast times of the shorter distances.
I think people – and “runners” – have preferences. I liked the challenge of the marathon and honestly, I felt like I “made it” in the running world when I finished it. Honesty!
That being said, obviously it doesn’t matter what distance or speed you run – as long as you DO run, you’re a runner!
hey, NO WAY am i discrediting ur insanely awesomeness that was ur first marathon and u SHOULD be screaming that u rocked it at the top of ur lungs. the difference is tho that u also respect the other distances too…plus, u kno as one of my first readers u can do no wrong in my eyes. 😉
Everyone has their own preferred distance! I have done one marathon and I’m really proud, but I don’t think it makes me any better than other folks… although I do encourage people to do one if they are interested! It is a great experience. My favorite distance is probably the half marathon, since I also like longer distance training runs, but it’s totally a manageable distance.
i agree, go with wat race and distance suits u best and i think all that u accomplish in running, regardless of distance, should make u proud. do ur thang and keep running. 🙂
I dont think marathons define you. If you run, youre a runner–distance be damned! However, in the spirit of honesty, when I hear people whine that they ran 2 miles the other day and still arent losing weight- “This running thing doesnt work!”. Or when they try to preach to you about pre and post fueling for a 5k–it does get a little grating after you just cleared a 20 miler that morning. But I always wonder if I have the problem. I have never raced a 5 or 10K. So maybe the best thing to do is to just respect each distance and if you have the guts, race em’ all so you can definitivly answer and know what works best for you. I hope to try a 10k balls to the wall someday and see what it feels like.
In other news, I just have to say you are a kick booty writer. I mean it. Great topics, great banter- you got it girl. You never fail to interest me or make me think!
hahaha…okay, so i keep nodding my head during all of ur comment!! 1) ack, at the risk of offending people i KNO wat u mean about people being all braggin about doing a 2mile stroll and while yea i’m glad they are doing something, it’s still in a totally diff. realm of bustin ur @$$ in a 20 miler or track session 2) get ur butt out there for that ballsy 10k…it hurts like a beast in race and training, but oh it feels soo good and u better tell me how it goes!! 3) aww, thanks for the props to my posts too it made my night 🙂
Firstly I agree with Kate in how you should respond in future. I’ve never run one either, but whenever people ask me about training its always “so when are you going to run a marathon?” Urgh. I plan to one day, but (and this is going to sound arrogant) I don’t want to until I know I am going to substantially sub 3 hr it and be competitive, rather than go for the honor of finishing (even though they are both valid goals). I love distances between 3km- 21km, trail and mountain racing 🙂 I can’t give you one distance coz my fav changes all the time! What’s yours?
BINGO!! see i’m with u and kate, any time i step to the line it’s not a “i want to finish” mentality i’m out for blood if u kno wat i mean…lol. and i don’t want to race unless i know i’m in respectable enough shape…i don’t knock on people who just race for fun, but that’s just now me. if i do race a marathon i want it to be a ‘race’ effort for me.
I have run a few marathons and I never think of myself better than someone who hasn’t . I think that anyone who has run, any distance and stays with it is a runner, unless they want to agrue with me that they are not. In my moind they are but I am not the arguing type so I would just smile and say keep up the running.
I do have to say that my favorite distance to run is a marathon. There is just something about running tha t far that excites me.
great comment and perfect way of saying it all. i’m also the same in usually just wanting to smile and tell a person to keep up the great running regardless of the words coming out of their mouth. 😛
What a ridiculous man! I am completely with you – the distance (and races) aren’t what make you a runner. It’s the importance of it, the caring about it, the missing it when it isn’t possible, the beauty of it…so much that isn’t distance per se. I hope he learns that himself one day!
“It’s the importance of it, the caring about it, the missing it when it isn’t possible, the beauty of it” <--- right there is the best definition of the day! succinct and to the point, hats off to u girl! 🙂
I have run 2 Halves and am trying to qualify for Boston but my real goal is to break 16 minutes on the 5k at the age of 50. I look at marathons as crazy ways for people my age to feel like they are young again. Boston has been a dream since I was 12 but past fulfilling a life long dream, I will only do a few more long races. I was an 800 runner in college and would love to break 1:55 one more time. Point is, running is not what we do. It’s who we are. True runners strive for personal excellence and that translates to life. Distance is irrelevant. Time is irrelevant. Effort is not. I run because I am a runner. I’m not a runner because I run. Make sense or am I just nuts like a lot of nonrunners say?
u will get that boston time, of that i know! but i LOVE that u’re still honing ur speed and have time goals for even that blasted 800…u’re a far braver person than me, i dunno if there is anything in the world that could tempt me into a half, i feel lactic acid in my eyes just reading about that. 😉
I’ve run 3 marathons because I got caught up in all of the Boston hype of the weekend warrior set. I love training for marathons, but the race itself sort of sucks – it’s way too long. Don’t love it. The “shorter” stuff is more fun for me right now – 5Ks and 10Ks. If I get the itch to do another marathon then I’ll do one. You can still pursue the 5K/10K just as intensely as the marathon.
I am like you I want to race a marathon not just run one. So after being obesee for years I got my weight under control. I am starting my racing career with 5Ks and am not interested in moving up distances until I hit certain goals with the shorter races. Could I finish a marathon right now sure, especially if I run slow enough. A runner is someone who runs because they want to run. Not because of a race.
CONGRATS on how far you’ve come already and good for you in realizing that people are missing out when they skip the 5k and 10k’s…enjoy each distance! 🙂
Ha Ha Ha. Seriously I have runner friends who do not do races AT ALL and have zero desire to do so. They are still runners! I do see how you can get annoyed. People do just assume all runners are marathoners.
haha…SO true, dang, i haven’t raced in waaaaaay long but i kno i’m a runnerchick at heart. 🙂
this is how you answer future questions like that:
“no, I haven’t run a marathon yet….I was too busy setting some national records, bitch!” 😛
haha but seriously, I hate it when people think the marathon is the be-all-end-all of running. I don’t want to hate on anyone, but isn’t a sub-15 5k just as baller as qualifying for Boston? more so, I think. And if you think logically about it, you have to be a runner BEFORE you complete a marathon, cuz like…you have to, you know, train for it. :-P. I’ve never done the full 26.2 and even if my running issues are fixed tomorrow, I still won’t be running – excuse me, I mean RACING – one for a few years yet. cuz I don’t want to RUN a marathon, i wanna RACE one, but i wanna RACE all the shorter distances first!
hahaha…u crack me up and i kno u would totally understand. it’s like, “hmmm excuse me but i’m pretty sure going balls to the wall fast hurts, just in a different way, than ur marathon…mmmk!” 😉 now going all out fast AND for the marathon *ahem* kara style THAT ballin’
I just ran my first half marathon.
I never felt pressured to run longer distances because hardly any of my friends run.
Interesting post. And I think you should not feel like you have to explain anything to anyone.
Sounds like that guy was just trying to brag. That’s all I would have taken it as. I “run” 12 minute miles. I am as fast as some people walking, but I call myself a runner. I think no matter the speed or accomplishments, you are still a runner. And I love the soul/sole pics above too.
heck YEA u’re a runner….keep sweating it out runnerchick style…u’re doing amazing!! 🙂 and glad u like the pix too…hehe
I have run some marathons (the last a decade ago). In some ways running one was a natural progression for me as I explored longer races, but in other ways there was external pressure. A non-running coworker did one. Oprah had done one! And my coworkers could care less about a 10K or 10 mile PR, but they were very interested when I was doing a marathon.
I probably like 15K to half marathon races the best these days. Allows time to settle into pace without going all out from the gun. Think I’m way too fragile these days to train for a marathon!
oh, i do blame oprah in part to setting off the whole ‘i’m gonna do a marathon craze’….hehe. i agree tho about the natural progression point u have, i think sometimes people jump to the marathon first and skip out on the fun and fast times of the shorter distances.
I think people – and “runners” – have preferences. I liked the challenge of the marathon and honestly, I felt like I “made it” in the running world when I finished it. Honesty!
That being said, obviously it doesn’t matter what distance or speed you run – as long as you DO run, you’re a runner!
hey, NO WAY am i discrediting ur insanely awesomeness that was ur first marathon and u SHOULD be screaming that u rocked it at the top of ur lungs. the difference is tho that u also respect the other distances too…plus, u kno as one of my first readers u can do no wrong in my eyes. 😉
Everyone has their own preferred distance! I have done one marathon and I’m really proud, but I don’t think it makes me any better than other folks… although I do encourage people to do one if they are interested! It is a great experience. My favorite distance is probably the half marathon, since I also like longer distance training runs, but it’s totally a manageable distance.
i agree, go with wat race and distance suits u best and i think all that u accomplish in running, regardless of distance, should make u proud. do ur thang and keep running. 🙂
I dont think marathons define you. If you run, youre a runner–distance be damned! However, in the spirit of honesty, when I hear people whine that they ran 2 miles the other day and still arent losing weight- “This running thing doesnt work!”. Or when they try to preach to you about pre and post fueling for a 5k–it does get a little grating after you just cleared a 20 miler that morning. But I always wonder if I have the problem. I have never raced a 5 or 10K. So maybe the best thing to do is to just respect each distance and if you have the guts, race em’ all so you can definitivly answer and know what works best for you. I hope to try a 10k balls to the wall someday and see what it feels like.
In other news, I just have to say you are a kick booty writer. I mean it. Great topics, great banter- you got it girl. You never fail to interest me or make me think!
hahaha…okay, so i keep nodding my head during all of ur comment!! 1) ack, at the risk of offending people i KNO wat u mean about people being all braggin about doing a 2mile stroll and while yea i’m glad they are doing something, it’s still in a totally diff. realm of bustin ur @$$ in a 20 miler or track session 2) get ur butt out there for that ballsy 10k…it hurts like a beast in race and training, but oh it feels soo good and u better tell me how it goes!! 3) aww, thanks for the props to my posts too it made my night 🙂
Firstly I agree with Kate in how you should respond in future. I’ve never run one either, but whenever people ask me about training its always “so when are you going to run a marathon?” Urgh. I plan to one day, but (and this is going to sound arrogant) I don’t want to until I know I am going to substantially sub 3 hr it and be competitive, rather than go for the honor of finishing (even though they are both valid goals). I love distances between 3km- 21km, trail and mountain racing 🙂 I can’t give you one distance coz my fav changes all the time! What’s yours?
BINGO!! see i’m with u and kate, any time i step to the line it’s not a “i want to finish” mentality i’m out for blood if u kno wat i mean…lol. and i don’t want to race unless i know i’m in respectable enough shape…i don’t knock on people who just race for fun, but that’s just now me. if i do race a marathon i want it to be a ‘race’ effort for me.
I have run a few marathons and I never think of myself better than someone who hasn’t . I think that anyone who has run, any distance and stays with it is a runner, unless they want to agrue with me that they are not. In my moind they are but I am not the arguing type so I would just smile and say keep up the running.
I do have to say that my favorite distance to run is a marathon. There is just something about running tha t far that excites me.
great comment and perfect way of saying it all. i’m also the same in usually just wanting to smile and tell a person to keep up the great running regardless of the words coming out of their mouth. 😛
What a ridiculous man! I am completely with you – the distance (and races) aren’t what make you a runner. It’s the importance of it, the caring about it, the missing it when it isn’t possible, the beauty of it…so much that isn’t distance per se. I hope he learns that himself one day!
“It’s the importance of it, the caring about it, the missing it when it isn’t possible, the beauty of it” <--- right there is the best definition of the day! succinct and to the point, hats off to u girl! 🙂
I have run 2 Halves and am trying to qualify for Boston but my real goal is to break 16 minutes on the 5k at the age of 50. I look at marathons as crazy ways for people my age to feel like they are young again. Boston has been a dream since I was 12 but past fulfilling a life long dream, I will only do a few more long races. I was an 800 runner in college and would love to break 1:55 one more time. Point is, running is not what we do. It’s who we are. True runners strive for personal excellence and that translates to life. Distance is irrelevant. Time is irrelevant. Effort is not. I run because I am a runner. I’m not a runner because I run. Make sense or am I just nuts like a lot of nonrunners say?
u will get that boston time, of that i know! but i LOVE that u’re still honing ur speed and have time goals for even that blasted 800…u’re a far braver person than me, i dunno if there is anything in the world that could tempt me into a half, i feel lactic acid in my eyes just reading about that. 😉
I’ve run 3 marathons because I got caught up in all of the Boston hype of the weekend warrior set. I love training for marathons, but the race itself sort of sucks – it’s way too long. Don’t love it. The “shorter” stuff is more fun for me right now – 5Ks and 10Ks. If I get the itch to do another marathon then I’ll do one. You can still pursue the 5K/10K just as intensely as the marathon.
that last sentence needs to be printed and posted on a wall in all running stores. 😉
I am like you I want to race a marathon not just run one. So after being obesee for years I got my weight under control. I am starting my racing career with 5Ks and am not interested in moving up distances until I hit certain goals with the shorter races. Could I finish a marathon right now sure, especially if I run slow enough. A runner is someone who runs because they want to run. Not because of a race.
CONGRATS on how far you’ve come already and good for you in realizing that people are missing out when they skip the 5k and 10k’s…enjoy each distance! 🙂